h came in and when he could not find the scissors to cut something open, he got really irked so i got the one from our first aid kit.
he then went on to say that every time he comes over he gets ticked off because the house is a pig sty, etc.
i can tell you that it is not--except for the kids bedrooms which i leave to them to clean. the rest of the house is nice and neat. the laundry was all done today, the garage was straightened up, and i raked out front and it looks neater as well so he cannot really say that. of course i had the day off as well.
so he went outside and i just let him be.
after about 10 minutes he came inside and sat with me in the living room.
after awhile, i took D16 to church. when i got home S18 and i were texting each other about the front tire on my car--there is a nail in it but the tire so far is okay but we will get it fixed tomorrow.
as we were texting, h asked who it was and i said, "do you really want to know?" he said he did, and i told him it was my boyfriend. the look on his face was one of those half smile no it's not type smiles and i said "yeah, he is about 6 foot 2, has short hair, sometimes he spikes it up." then he said, "oh, you are texting S18." i started to laugh and said "yeah, i am."
i ended up picking D16 up from church because he said he hates to drive anymore.
when we got home, h was reading some stuff on the computer and left about 8:30. he said he was coming over tomorrow as he wanted to finish what he was doing on the computer.
he settled down a lot after about 15 minutes so it wasn't that bad of an evening.
oh, and he is going to let me pay the bills again this month with his unemployment money. he even told me that if i need to have any extra money to just use whatever money is in there for what i need. i told him no, that i was fine.
and
D16 had a strange dream last night.
She said she dreamt that her dad was crying and crying and she told him to move home. That was all she remembers. end of dream.
She also told me that when she went to the patio lastnight, she caught him wiping his eyes.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
