Hi All!! Thanks for the well wishes but the whole weekend was a bunch of missed opportunity....GRRRRR.....
Well Friday he was casually texting all day and then I didn't hear from him for awhile. As I was about to leave work my BF calls and asks if she can sleep over because she just needed to get out of her house. While driving to her house H started texting asking about my plans I told him that I was on the way to get BF, so he got a bit upset and and said he is not passing by. Instead of getting stupid I just said "ok, have a good night and I will talk to you later" we actually had some joking texts back and forth for a little longer and that was it.
Then on Sat morning I felt bad and texted him "I had a VERY vivid dream about you last night I close tonight at work and then am going out for a drink after. Hopefully when I get home you can pass by" He immediatly texted back, "Maybe " Then again during the day just some misc chit chat. At night I got home pretty early but wasn't sure if I should text him right away so I waited a bit then asked him if he was awake. He texted me that he went to bed because he thought that I was going to be home later and he was tired. GRRRR!!!!! I actually got a bit frustrated and was a little buzzed so I did do a no-no and write "Wow, 3 nights in a row shot down, I'll take the hint... Sorry to have bothered", he wrote back "Oh please, I'm half asleep woman. And again I thought you were going to be out late" then he just wrote "Sorry Goodnight"
So today BF came over again and we were just hanging out and veging all day. I decided to back off of him and see if he was going to do any pursuing. Well he started texting me about 9pm asking what I was doing and saying that he wanted to pass by after seeing some of his friends. I felt bad because my BF had said she was going to sleep over but when she saw that he was texting me she said that she would leave and she knew I wanted to see him. I felt bad and told her no, but she insisted that she was going to leave. So I texted him "Are really coming over because C is here and said she will leave if you are coming over, otherwise she is sleeping over." He said to tell her to stay and then she got mad at me that I even told him that she was there. She said that I just should have told him to come over and let her leave. Well long story short she is gone and I am not even 100% sure that he is still coming over!!