The A was for 8 months . 7 of them mostly via pone texting, the final month 2 physical contacts.
What I believe is that I have been doing Dbing incorrectly. I have been in contact daily ( mostly me contacting ) and being upbeat and happy and positive, looking good , not asking wherabouts etc etc .
I thought I was moking progress. I know i had an A but hell it stopped immediately, I did everything he said he needed to get over this. My life was an oopen book, I went to every C meeting alone and as a couple.
So where am i going wrong!!!!!!! Whatam i not understanding. I cant fake it to I make it.
Tommorrow night i have meeting with C. A new one. My goal has shifted. I want to be in a place where I am happy without H I am not filing for D. I want nothing more than to be married.
I need to fix me and if he is up for it in time i hope I will be open. I am very sad.
Sorry you feel unable to advise. I need all the help i can get and I like being told what I am doing Wrong. WHICH YOU DONT DO WELL. BREAK IT DOWN FOR ME. MIGHT BE BLACK AND WHITE TO YOU BUT NOT ME.
