I will think it through carefully I don't want to rush and like you said there are no easy answers. I must say though your posts almost brought me to tears because I realized the amount of support and incite that I have been getting here. I just wish this thought process was more prominent in our society. Thanks for the re-enforcment in acting as if, at least It gave me the licence to have fun at the wedding and this site and the DB strategies have saved my mental health.
I will keep you updated and will post here before doing anything. I will still need your incite to keep plodding on into the future
Cheers, Jeff
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June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
