T2L - tell me what you and your H are talking about... how are you not bringing up something, R, anything? and How is he not? feel us in on that part.... or are you guys just acting as if... doesn't he live with OW? Crazy.. my H is so far from even coming close to wanting sex with me... right now I hate him so it would be hard for me too unless I had a few drinks... HA HA
Faithrunner..... I don't know what I'd do... I'd hit the roof if my H brought his OW around my kids... we have said the same thing that we wouldn't right now... so far he is holding his end of the deal up... but in reality not too many OW really want to be around her mans kids ... at the beginning she'll act all cool but it will get old.. bottom line I'd say look we need to set some boundries.. what benefit is this for the kids? That we all need to keep the kids in mind first... he has to know that there is no purpose for your kids to meet anyone ... you are not even D'd....
Look for my post here or newcomers... I had another crazy husband weekend.... I will update on T2L's thread later I might go copy and paste...
hang in there ladies...
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
