Much like you, I have been completely mad at myself for doing what I do or have done. I believe that we are way better off. I know YOU are, considering what a dumb ass your H is. We all know you tried and tried.
Not saying that you should give up. But I did agree with GF. There really is nothing you can say to him. Nothing you really HAD to say to him. He knows it already, you know? Just leave him be. Who knows what the future brings. You tried being there for him. You said he had no one else to turn to.
He has her, so let him have her. Let her deal with his ass. You've already been there, done that.
So have I. You know how much alike we are. I'm done trying. I just need to leave things be and see what my future holds for me. It may include her someday and it may not.
Right now, you and I WILL be better off.
Just leave him to his miserable life and keep moving forward with yours. That's my plan from now on. Your a fantastic mother and I'm a fantastic dad. I'll deal with my issues as will you.
That's all that matters and that's all we can do.
Love ya' and bear hugs to ya'.
Damn, I was taking too much time posting and Yenko beat me. No drink for me.
Last edited by hopeful4her; 11/03/0803:19 AM.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
