First Faith, don't beat yourself up. It happens. Of course he is playing the old record of I don't love you blah blah blah. You can get along for a whole month and have one bad moment and that is the only thing they remember. REad T2L list above. Follow it. I don't know how I would feel if my H told me he went on a date? My H won't admit he is seeing anyone. It is pathetic that is because she works for him. I know you are angry but see how you feel in the morning. I know we all question ourselves why do we want them when they are like this. This is tough.
Tl2 you are doing well. I am happy to hear it. You know we are rooting for you. Has he been talking R at all or bringing up OW? I can't imagine getting to that point again so you give us some hope. How are the kids getting on with him? Keep doing what you are doing -- one day at a time.
As for me it was a busy weekend (lonely but busy). D15 had homecoming dance. She looked absolutely beautiful. Took pictures and they had great time. D15 said I could send a picture to H but if she did not want OW to see it. I called him and said your D looked beautiful, I will forward a picture to you but you can't share it with OW...D said this was her condition or forget it. H said fine, I sent it and he send a text back saying she was beautiful. I texted back -- "she looked so grown up tonight. She looked like a princess, you would have been so proud of her. Take care." (truth dart). Then we went to San Antonio for soccer game. H sends text to me -- what is the final score. I send a text back (an hour later) giving him the score and how she did. Then I said "go giants - Dallas stinks and all their fans". H was watching the game with OW (who is a huge Dallas fan). No word since. H is missing D and all her events. It is sad. Nothing I can do about it. I am detaching as much as I can.
Hope the rest of you are doing good. GAL - back to gym tomorrow, Friday I made plans for dinner and go to a play in the next town. Need to try and fill up more time.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
