I think there's a fine line between recovering from hurt and lapsing into the victim role. I plan to stay on the recovery side.
Very easy to play victim! But it feels 'ucky' after awhile, doesn't it? I know for me it does. I want to be a survivor!! We can do this.
Funny about the snow tires. And yes, xH asked me the other day for a hat of his (he couldn't find it). He actually said "Oh did you want to keep it?" (because he signed a piece of paper saying everything in the house the day of the D was mine). I couldn't believe he thought I would keep his hat, out of spite. Silly men.
