xH was not thrilled I wanted to tell them tonight (he is in never never land where he doesn't face reality well). But he showed up and was supportive of it. Quiet, but supportive. We (I) told them and they were ok with it. No tears from anybody. A few questions. I am sure more are coming. But I feel so much better that its 'out there'. I would have been devastated if someone else told them.