Well, God knows what you did, putting your wife and boys first, and why you did it. End of story. Plus the friends in your life know, and understand.
Glad you got to see them on Halloween and glad they went with you. It was a loss to your wife if she blew them off for plans, but you gain, mister. Your gain.
Everything she said!!! I also think well yeah, it didn't work out with DBing as we maybe hoped. But if we hadn't tried and DB'd maybe we would have felt like we hadn't tried everything for our M. I think I would have felt much differently about the D if I hadn't worked very hard this past year. And I've really worked on myself which will benefit any future Rs, and the same thing goes for you. My H and your W just gave up and didn't try, got involved with a new OP, I just can't believe at some point they won't regret that where we will know that we don't have those kind of regrets. And I suspect you're like me and a lot of the not giving up is just because of the kids and fighting for them will always be a no-brainer I think. Karen
