ACJ, your H is still so far in the tunnel. I don't mean any disrespect to your H but he sounds like a child that won't let anyone play with the toys, even the child they belong to as well.

Don't worry. Someday he will grow up.

You are an amazing woman. He is making such a huge mistake.

Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God