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H is constantly pushing for D. Texts me, talks to me. Yesterday he dropped off the kids and came out and said to me cool, you are getting a border, does that mean I will get my money? All the while he was wringing his hands. I thought it was in such bad taste, the kids or at least one were present. He also said I didn't answer his texts. Asked if I had a plan, said he knew I wouldn't reveal my battle plan. I said when I know you will be the second to know. Then started telling me how to fix my broken fridge door. My friend came over shortly thereafter (a male) and he basically stopped talking and left. He won't say anything in front of him. I can't take the pressure. I can't afford D.