Well, he called and he was laughing.... He said "what is this message you sent me?" I said, "you were waiting for an answer, right?" He said "yeah, only your message was funny... I will call later to talk, I had to tell you I got it and thought it was funny..."
"Yeah, why is that? I want to ask Deb so many things but I am holding back because somehow I feel it wouldn't do me good at this phase. I am so glad she and Bill post to me, thanks guys."
I guess I am answering both questions at the same time.
#1.. I love others people's viewpoints. Usually the more the better.
#2.. Although I don't know the whole history between Bill and Deb.. I know enough that they will fit in nicely here. They bring to the table.. a new perspective.
#3.. I have posted alongside Bill on a few of the "manly" threads here.. and have always been impressed. It will be interesting to get to know.. his other half.
"Well, he called and he was laughing.... He said "what is this message you sent me?" I said, "you were waiting for an answer, right?" He said "yeah, only your message was funny... I will call later to talk, I had to tell you I got it and thought it was funny..."
So.. are you ready to lead a little?
Remember.. you don't have to lead 100%.. just some gentle steering.
Like Sandi2 said.. "I am old school.. the man should be chasing the woman." I may have paraphrased that..
Keep your head up...
And always..
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
Kalni, I saw that you are sad so I came by to see you. WHAT'S UP GIRLFRIEND?!? When you start believing everything will be okay, it starts being okay. Get it? love, Goldey
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
Kalni, Although I have only just recently started following your sitch and posting to you, please know that I will be more than happy to answer any questions you may have. I will help you any way I can.
Forrest, I liked the way you responded to "our" question! I have to admit that I was in a bit of a foul mood last night. I wasn't sure how you meant what you said so I am glad that I asked w/out jumping to any incorrect conclusions.
I think that you are the first to refer to me as Bill's "other half". I would like to think that you will find me to be a lot like Bill in my thinking. Although we do not ALWAYS agree, we definitely DO more times than not...and almost always where situations on the board are concerned. Who knows, maybe you will start "seeing" more of me around here.
Kalni, please take care and stay strong! Focus on the positives, and let God take control. I can tell you from personal experience, HE won't let you down!