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(((Kalni))) All I got is hugs, babe. And a firm belief that God already knows what is in store for you. Trust His plan. I've found He's right, most of the time. (except when I disagree, which usually gets me in trouble!) Peace. Goldey


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((((((((Kalni))))))))

I'm happy to see you taking the dive! I think you'd regret it forever if you didn't! I believe it is safer than you think... even though you can't see where you are going to land. Hugs, beautiful!

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Hey Maria
I'm so thrilled for you! And I am just the same, I have lightbulb moments, usually in the shower! Must be all that water hey. Thanks for remembering and thinking of me this morning, that made me feel good.

So you chose Saturn ! Good for you. Actually, from what I was reading, it didnt have to be such a dichotomy, Saturn, or, Uranus, but there could be a third way... which is just to try, with an open mind I guess. Or, dive in as you say!

I'm so thrilled for you and yes, you know, I really would love to come visit (but now might not be a good time now that you are *just* reconciling with your H after a year !!!?)

Wow, 30 degrees? Its abuot 6 here, dark, cold and windy. At least it has stopped raining! (not for long)

Al xxx


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Ali, you are welcome here ANY time!! I mean that.

Goldey, I surely hope that God has a plan, there must be a reason for all this...

Jeff, hugs back to you... We'll see where I will land. It has to better than where I am at now.
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K, Looks like the entire universe is aligned with you now ... from Uranus and all those planets, ..., to FG, and even H. Like Lan I'm starting to fall off the fence because its tilting so much ... and when you stop saying stbxH ...

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((((Sunshine))))

I'd love to come and visit. Let's plan something for the new year perhaps?

I'm so glad you're going to dive in. It's going to be hard work but I hope and believe it will be worth it. Besides which your H is awfully handsome and is the kind of man to improve with age- another thing to look forward to.

I hope you're feeling OK. Did you tell him that you're willing to work on things yet or is that later? I hope he responds appropriately.

Thinking of you, Beautiful Sunshine!

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fb2, I said on Bbj's thread atbxH (almost to be...). Well, I guess when the whole Universe is aligned with me, what's the use me fighting it, right? I can always have a MLC later on and destroy everything once and for all... (yep, still hoping)

Lisa, New Year is too late. How about end November? Maybe we can arrange it so that Ali can make it...

I didnt tell him. I tried when he dropped off the kids again but didnt have the courage to do so. I am sending him a TM saying "your second and last chance just started...". What do you think?
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BTW Lisa, you know all of my friends and your freinds can read what you wrote on my wall, right? A lot of them smiled with me, I bet!!! Thank you


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((((Sunshine)))))

I'm glad it made you smile- I'm laughing thinking about it! I'm not ashamed- I just didn't want to contaminate Julia's thread with my wanton-ness! Thanks goodness Jeff isn't around to read it ;\)

End of November should be good. Let me check with CEO on Tuesday that that would be OK with work. It would be great if Ali could make it too.....

I like the idea of the text- it's smart and a bit sassy, just like you. Send it!

L. xx


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Got my fingers crossed for you.

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I just did before I regret it. I am turning the page tonight. I wrote "I decided to give it another chance. Time is "counting" as of now..."

I bet he will be between getting mad and laughing but if he has lost his sense of houmor he is in deep... because I have found mine the last year.


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