Bbj, my atbxH (almost to be X H) is far from being used here as a comparison. Remember, we are seperated for a WHOLE YEAR!!! We have gone to the lawyers (both of us) in the beginning, our families have lived the Divorce trauma, our kids also, I spent a lot of money in therapy, he did what Dan does for 5 months BEFORE he moved out...
I understand you but trust me, you need to stand strong and be ...patient (sorry). Love K