I can imagine one. If your H turned into Kalni's H sometime around lunchtime today. But you don't need to rush. Of course he wants to sit on the fence, enjoy family time when it is fun, throw fits when it is not, and be able to threaten divorce. You are more grounded in a concrete reality. Yes means yes and no means no, and people follow through on what they say. I don't know him, but I think he just likes to complain and watch you jump to try to fix things.
