It is possible that I will spend part of the Christmas holiday alone. If that is the case, I will just deal with it. I actually kind of like the down time and being by myself.

Last year just before Thanksgiving I had a wonderful "adult" day with a friend--we had tapas and wine and looked around the city--and it was awesome. I am hoping that I will be able to do that again this year, either before Thanksgiving or Christmas.

Just about anything I do w/D is fun for her, so I have learned that I do not need to kill myself going all-out for her. She is happy to see any and everybody who comes by.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D