Stepping a toe into the light

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Julia,

ITH sent me details of something that really helped me, so I will post it on FB. Anything that helps hey. Its all a matter of perspective.

I agree with Lisa and T, no, it wont be a bring them back convo. For me, its more of a dobsons letter type thing (that I never got to writing!) where in some peoples sitches here, they get to that point that they do let go, wish their ex well, acknowledge their part in it (so not just the WAS fault for running off with an OW) and let them know the door is still open...

In the meantime, liek Lisa says, you let them go on with their journey and you get on with yours.

I suppose, thats what I was trying to comminicate here (badly!) but I am not sure I am brave enough to do that when I see him, if I see him! (he didnt reply to my text message).

For you, I'm so sorry that it looks like he has gone and done what he said he didnt want. I agree, that would be surprising for a guy just out of a M, so yes, maybe its flatmates..

I also agree that yuo should keep lines of communication open, but perhaps not initiate any just yet?

I'm in the same place as you right now (but alot less detached!) and I am also staring at that cliff, poised to let go...

It does "suck balls" as T so eloquently put thugh! Thinking of yuo,
Al xxx