I think that sounds really positive, and he sounds like he gave you some good advice (that will make him feel good too that he was able to help!). I *really* love that you guys have so much in common and so much to talk about, that is such a huge positive! You obviously get on really well, and that is a great foundation/ building block.
I have to reiterate what OD says. My h also calls everything else, apart from him and I, 'we'. In fact inanimate objects too as well as other people - I usually silently snigger when he does this. I wouldn't worry too much about it, although it is easy to say. I do think it is a turn of phrase.
I think you are doing to great and really wouldn't worry. You come across as confident by not speaking to him right away etc and that is really positive.
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It is also confusing for me to hear about him having so much fun in his new life in New York. When we were still together, it seemed like he barely had time to brush his teeth, and now he has time to rehearse and learn things just for fun, and has all these new friends to go to parties with?? I am jealous of the fun he is having and also confused, when does he have time to do this stuff? Unless he barely ever has fun, but when we talk every few weeks, he only tells me about the fun stuff?? Was I so much of an energetic burden on his life, that he couldn't have fun when I was around in his life? Or did he have fun before and I just didn't notice because none of it threatened me?
Try not to get too bogged down with wonderings; I don't think you are going to get answers to this. I wanted to point out that don't you always portray to him that you are doing great and are ultra busy and GALing as part of your DBing? He may be doing the same thing. In fact going on evidence of your posts from when you met up in NY and him wanting to show you how in control and cool he was (I am thinking of the subway navigation incident) this may very well be what he is doing. Don't let it make you insecure.
I wish you could come and sing with Lisa and I, it would be such fun! I have a feeling we'd be giggling lots and lots. Have you decided on your final pieces yet for your recital? I so wish I could come and hear it.
