What I find to be more and more very weird is that H is coming over here more, does more to help me, takes the kids more places they need to get to, and is telling me more and more that he loves me.

And offers me money all the time--not that he has any to throw away.

I think he is really only over there because he has the place to himself while she is at work all day, then he seems to drink at night while she is there.

That is odd. So he is there for the quiet and uses it as an escape, but uses the alcohol to escape ow and everything else at night.

Does that make sense? I guess in MLC circles it does.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19