So this morning BOTH kids come in our bed--that almost never happens, and cuddle with H and I. Very nice....
I get up, make breakfast for kids, they spend the morning playing with their dad.
H is just leaving to go to farm. I get the kids dressed for the farm, and me, too. D wants to go see "HER" cow, Connie Cow. She says Connie talks to her.
I say to H, (while kids are in other room finding shoes)
"So, we didn't talk last night, but you came to our bed. Should I be making any assumptions here or what?"
H: What are you talking about?
Me: We didn't talk last night, and you leave tomorrow for L.A.
H: Yeah, what do you mean talk?
Me: Well I told you I was meeting with the L next week unless you had anything to offer in terms of our M, and you said we would talk last night.
H: Last night when we were both asleep?
Me: Right, so you came to our bed, what does that mean?
H: It means we still need to talk.
Me: O-KAY, you leave tomorrow.
H: Then we will have to talk tonight.
F it, I swear! WTF could he need to say. If he were wanting to stay, wanting to work on us, wanting me to NOT file, I would think it would be a BIT more important. Kalni's H was a confused guy for quite a while, but now that he WANTS it, he is making it very clear to her that he WANTS it. My H is NOT, all he did was come into our bed for the first time since saying he wants a D. For all I know, his back hurt from farming and he was tired of the couch.............