Wow, it took a lot of guts and strength for you to have that conversation with H. I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself and laying down the law!!!! It makes me so sad to think that he does not want his little girl. It reminds me of the part of "passionate marriage" where he talks about how he realized he was too selfish to make room for a child in his life, and he really had to grow up in order to make room for his child. This happened BEFORE his wife got pregnant and gave birth. I hope that your H has the courage to go through that process NOW. (pretty D--- SOON).
thank you for your ps's. I'm so sorry I missed your post before this one, I don't know how that happened... I'm glad I am back in the loop now!!