wait... what?? he's living with OW? did I miss something? that totally sucks balls. I thought he was still living with his parents??? I am sending you ginormous hugs right now.
I had a discussion with a rl friend last night similar to the discussion going on on your thread right now, trying to explain why having a "what is going on here with us?" conversation would not be productive... I know in my sitch I can't expect any answers from him until he brings them to me of his own volition. All I can do is try to help him feel safe to come to me for any reason, and continue to try to live a joyful life. (albeit perhaps massively introspective at the moment).
thinking of you, wish I could join the choir and sing by your side, T
