What a fantastic Halloween!!! It was lovely to have it on a Friday, with no school the next day. Plus, it was 75 degrees! Unheard of, and fabulous!!!
xH came after work, and went trick or treating with us. I figured he would do our little court with us, then go out for the night. But he stayed the entire time, walking us and many other unaccompanied kiddos to the next subdivision. He was very helpful, very kind, and seemed to be relaxed and having fun as well.
Little D4's legs tuckered out, so we left D6 with some other adults and headed back. He got us settled in the house (little does he know D4 wanted to go back out and sit outside to hand out candy) ha!
It wasn't weird or hard or anything blecky having him around. I am thankful for that.
Unfortunately our entire street knows about the divorce now. Some have told their children (this makes me so mad, because I asked the people I told to NOT do this). I just talked with xH and I told him we have to tell the girls everything tonight, before someone else does. He isn't happy about it, doesn't think we should tell them anything.
I am very upset about facing them, couldn't sleep a wink. I know now that they will come through this ok, but their little innocent faces, and questions that will come...sigh...
xH said he will be there and that's good. But oh man.
