There are just some things that are out of one's hands such as where someone chooses to live.
Christmas is really about the birth of Christ and maybe we should be focusing on that more than who is sitting at the dinner table.
When I said it is hard to watch him walk away on Christmas Eve, I certainly do not mean I sit there and sob and carry on. It is not like that for me. Yes, it is sad but I am not in control over his actions. And I don't dwell on it either.
And for the record, I do what I have always done on Christmas Day, make a nice dinner for my family. There is nothing different about that and there is nothing I would rather do.
lwb--I am not a bitter person and the last thing I want to do is to push my husband away. That is not what Christians do.
You and I certainly have difference of opinions here so we shall leave it at that.
Thank you!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
