That's horrible, finding out that they're living together in whatever capacity. Ick.
I wish I had something eloquent to say that would help but I'm somewhat lost for words. I guess I'd say that if they spend lots of time together it's going to bring things to their demise more quickly, especially considering some of H's background stuff. *sigh*, not that it's any consolation or help in getting over the general horrible-ness of it.
Have you got any sessions with Jody planned? I wonder what she'd suggest. I also would say that in DR MWD does say that with the MLCer the only thing you can really do is let them get on with it and focus on yourself while they try to sort themselves out and realise they need to look to themselves. I think if you still want to DB it's worth keeping a line of communication open with him, but I know it's hard to think of when you're hurting.
Let me know if you fancy a drink or three this week.
