I wanted to encourage you. Overall, you are doing pretty well. I want you to keep focusing on your children and yourself. Your W seems to be pretty far gone.
I am a HUGE believer in M. Yet, I think you need to press on with the thought you will not work things out with your W. You need to lovingly detach. I am not writing if or when your W wants to work on the M you should not. I really think you need to not let her actions bother you. That was so very hard for me.
I remember my WAW was really POed when I would not be down in the dumps like her. You NEED to keep up the PMA. If for nothing else, it will help you stay sane.
My friend, my brain is freezing up a bit. It has been a long day. I'll check back on you in the morning.
All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers tonight.
Take Care,
RMG
Last edited by RMG77739; 11/02/0805:51 AM.
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