I'm with Saffie, what's mine is mine, and what's his is ours.
LOL!!! Makes perfect sense to me!
I think what's difficult for me is I don't like asking or demanding things. I might mention my thoughts or feelings, but I don't feel comfortable asking for something, nagging giving ultimatums, etc.... I need for him to just want to do these things.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
