He told me in February that she is a screwed up person. I asked if she would cause harm to me and the kids if he were to come home and he said no.

She didn't but a few weeks after he was back at home, she was calling him again and he was calling her.

You know what happened next -- he moved out because he said he could not deal with things and also I was so nice to him.

Then a few days after that he told me how miserable he was.

And he is still gone and everytime I think he has hit rock bottom, he does not seem to.

I guess he will have to end up in the hospital for that to happen. I hope not but I have heard of MLCers getting so sick that they end up in the hospital.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19