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Frank,

She will keep looking like crap, and you will keep looking, feeling and acting better.

The shift has occured. The tide has turned. You will win.

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Well halloween night was different for me. Both of the girls went with friends and had sleepovers so it was just me all night.

Not a lot of kids came to the door but those who did were fun. I don't usually stay home and give out candy, that was always W's thing to do.

Was online and around 9:40 I get an email from a website that says

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Dear Frank,

Your friend (W) sent you the following video from CNNBC: "Obama's Loss Traced To Frank D"
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With a link to a video that's kind of funny but is pro Obama.

I thought it was weird that she would be at her friends house where they were supposedly having a party and send me this.

She knows I am against Obama, but the video is funny so I'm not sure if it is an 'in your face' or just a joke. I replied to her 'That was funny!'

Weird


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Frank,

She will keep looking like crap, and you will keep looking, feeling and acting better.

The shift has occured. The tide has turned. You will win.

--Theoden



Well Said!

I think this is true for many of us here.

I think this is true


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I think it was chicken$hit to not sign her name.


Not at all. I think it is some form of humiliation on her part, as if she doesn't deserve to have her name on such a warm sentiment.
The sentiment is from the heart. She's too ashamed to sign.

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I agree with everyone, the tide is turning. In my life it's getting so much better. I'm detached. Dropped the rope.

I feel good.

Happened to drive by W's 'house' tonight some what early. Douchbags truck was there, but W's minivan was not. Saturday is usually a busy day for her business.

I didn't feel a thing. Nothing.

I WAS thinking about how I once saw her driving the minivan with him in the passenger seat. She was NEVER a woman who drove a man, she always wanted to 'be driven'

I think most women want to be driven around by their men.

anyway, I really don't care what she's doing. I see her as a skank, any guy will do. I mean, this guy just knocked on her door looking for sympathy and now he is the 'soulmate' ????

I'm glad I'm not so superficial.

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Frank,

She will keep looking like crap, and you will keep looking, feeling and acting better.

The shift has occured. The tide has turned. You will win.

--Theoden


What will I win?


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Frank, you can rediscover yourself in all this - if you are diligent - and that will certainly be a good thing - but let me tell you, I've just spent the last several hours with Jeff and there just ain't no winners in a MLC/WAW inspired separation/divorce.

No winners at all.



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Nothing exciting going on. W babysits her massage teacher friends 4 yr old son on sunday afternoons. This Sunday she decided to take him and D13 and D17 to the coastal town we used to live in and, as D17 put it, "Go to some of the places we used to go to when WE were his age".

I don't know if I'd call that 'replay' for W or not.

So, she came here around 10:30 and hustled around, making a lunch for the girls (well actually telling them to make a lunch, but still doing it for D13). She was very pleasant and I was pleasant also. She seemed a little more 'at ease' around me.

When they left, the girls said good bye and as she went out the door she said "Good bye Frank" in a 'nice' tone.

She still talks funny, you know with that "I can't talk to you in my comfortable voice so it's the forced nice voice".

Really don't know what's up with her. I will simply see it as her feeling like I don't hate her, and we'll be 'friendly' from now on as she leaves and moves on with her life.


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