She told him that's ok (it's always ok with us even when it isn't).
What else are they supposed to say? Sounds like the aliens are out en force today. Sorry he wasn't there for you like he should have been, but the best thing to do is document it and do the best you can.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option