This is totally amazing!! I am reading all of the posts here from Meatpuppet on down..and I wonder..hmm..why isn't my H feeling like this??? I am so hungry for him..long to be held and the only time he does that is when he reaches for me when he is asleep!! Yet I have caught him in the act of self-gratification and he tells me..it is different!well ..yeah there is nobody but him there..exactly..NO BODY!! not mine at least..and somebody please explain this to me??? I have no clue why he is so distant..he knows I love to make love..I love loving him and yet he was attracted to some frumpy looking thing..and I am still not sure if anything ever happened with this OW..she swore NOT..but what do I believe, when nothing is happening here..After I heard him coming onto her we were at a real standstill..he begged me to forgive him..said he did not know what he was thinking..and was so sorry he hurt me..but made no attempt to come near me physically.. for 6 weeks!!
I couldn't stand it anymore..so one nite I got into a sexy lacy nitie and said to him "I am going to go to bed and have sex ..would you care to join me?? He got all flustered and said UH Yeah!! the following week 3 x and then nothing again.. all of what is written by you is how I have felt..I have given all my energy to him, and feel forsaken, used, let down, unappreciated, uninspired
and only good for taking care of a home, and responsibilities that do not include physical pleasures with my man!! Women have needs too..and yes..months can pass by without any interaction..It is so selfish to think that your partner is not hurt by this lack of affection and emotional bonding through passionate love making..It is a heart wrenching roller coaster ride..especially because when we are together, and loving each other, it is so wonderful..my face glows..and I see what the "lack of" is doing to me and my appearance..I feel like I am aging rapidly..I am looking at other men, whereas I never noticed before..I do not want to stray..I want to be loyal..as I have been for 12 years..this is not new to me..this has been going on for most of our married life..but it seems to get worse the longer we are married..used to be 2 or 3 weeks. now it is months..the longest was 6 months and when I approached him on it..he said NO Way!! cannot be that long!! I said yes it has been..don't you miss me at all???
He said he hadn't realized..so we tried..it was nothing but a total mess..I did not question him, I was patient, tried to be loving to him, and he turned his back to me and said he was a jerk and just wanted to go to sleep!! So where does that leave me?? is what I asked..he said what do you mean? I said well ..by turning your back on me?? that makes me feel shut out completely..can we cuddle?? Yeah I guess so..I was so sad..I felt like someone just died! that answer was to me like saying Yeah If I have to..meantime he used to laugh when his friends or his sisters husbands used to complain that sex was seasonal..He'd say he never had that problem with me! no..he didn't.. I did!! Healthy bodies are definitely what sexual people have..I agree..great for the circulation!! So this listless, lack of energy? what do you men have to tell me, as a woman who is starving, can try out on my H to maybe get back in the swing of things..and have a more active sex life..and don't tell me to come on to him..when I do, he cannot maintain..if you know what I mean !!! That's really great for my self-esteem..I feel like I don't turn him on anymore..yet, I have been told I am great looking and have a great body..but I found him surfing porn sites looking at women who are 300lbs!!Does any of this make sense to you?? HELP!!!
This butterfly is turning into a moth who gets burned for her attraction to her man!!