I haven't posted to you, but for what it's worth, a pastor I listen to on the radio out of Fort Lauderdale, FL says that he keeps in his file drawers a file full of divorce decrees stapled to marriage certificates, from members of his church who have divorced and then remarried their exes.
I don't know, I suppose once you have 'lived' the reality of divorce you may see that the marriage wasn't as bad as you thought, or at least you wonder if you gave up too soon, if you could have tried harder? My H is wavering on whether he wants to file (I don't!) and I wonder if he does, if he won't feel like your wife may be feeling, someday...
I am sure it sucked not being with your daughter on Halloween. That is one of the many reminders you will have of how it "could have been" if you and W were still together.
If you are interested in trying again, I'd give more thought to living in your house again,,,although I can see how that could confuse your daughter if it didn't turn into a reconciliation...
