Well, I know you're supposed to have no expectations with the WAS, but dern it's hard to do that. I asked H about 2 days ago to watch the kids until I got home tonight from the tour or as late as he could (he picked up the kids last night and had them today). He said he could probably watch them until around 9, so they would have just been alone a half hour or so which would be fine.
H dropped them off at 5:30 tonight and left. I told D8 that I'd be gone 3 hours tonight and she wanted to call H and ask him to watch her. I let her call (twice) and he didn't pick up either time. I guess OW didn't want to wait until 9 to go out, and she of course is more important than our kids!!! Karen