My 29 year old wife going through MLC, this sucks

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So tonight my W had a photographer coming over to take outside pictures of the kids. She has had this planned for months. She informs me right before the girl arrives that she wants some pictures with the kids alone too and that if I want some alone with them that is fine. But she is not interested in any family shots. Then she says that I should find some things to do so the girl doesn't ask us to do a whole family shot. Now I know this shouldn't surprise me but it just sucked because I think when we get through this ordeal we will regret not having a family photo. But I understand from her mindset, why should she get a picture of such an awful time. Still tears my heart out.

She asked me for the third and fourth time when I got home from work if I am going out and who with. I am tired and really don't want to go but you bet your ass I am. Especially since she has asked so much and I think she is a little jealous.

Anyway, I kept up the as if during the pictures but inside I am sad. She is definetely thinking alot and is kindof inside herself this last day or so. Hopefully, she is really thinking about what she wants. Tomorrow is another day.

Bye all.