Hi Al, I didnt have A bomb day. We were going back and forth for 5-6 months during which he wasnt talking about divorce or leaving. He did leave first time (after me pressuring him) to think about things on Sept 4 and returned home Oct 20 only to say after 3 weeks "he couldn't try". Then I pushed him to "stay or go" (he wanted to spend holidays with us as a "happy family") and he finally left Nov 17th (or 19th? Cant remember anymore, it was a Sat).
I sure hope it will look like a bad dream by the end of this month. I have had enough of this crap and frankly I cant take anymore. I am about to go on a defense, "ptotect me" mode and go numb again... My way of caving. Right now I dont think that would be a good idea but it seems more and more likely to happen... Maybe I will have a breakthrough moment tomorrow... K
