BINGO. Some wayward spouses have even VOCALIZED that, if you can believe it, as in "You ruined my affair!" and "You spoiled all the FUN I was having!!"
Thank goodness my wife -- although livid with me at times, don't get me wrong -- never said anything of those things, because I don't think I could have handled it.
Puppy
I think you could have! You know I was thinking isn't that kind of some of our minor goals with DBing: to ruin their affair and/or spoil the fun they're having???
I don't know, but it's certainly always been part of MY approach!!
You know I was thinking isn't that kind of some of our minor goals with DBing: to ruin their affair and/or spoil the fun they're having??? 
