It helped with my compassion toward her to think of her as ADDICTED.
Puppy
Puppy, I think you're 100% right. Have you ever noticed that most of us literally seem to have addicts for our WAS? Addicted to sex, alcohol, gambling, or whatever. My H is a sober alcoholic but had a series of addictions before OW. And his behavior with OW has been like a crack addict, and I think H sees me as an obstacle to getting the OW fix or something... Karen
