Thank you so much for stopping by, I hear ya on the detachment. The biggest mistake I've made is when I first came and started lurking I was DBing to get her back. Your soooo right detaching and dbing HAS to be for me,and has to be for real. When I finally "got it." Good things began to happen.
Long way to go still, long way, but finally moving in the right direction. I value your advice greatly, feel free to drop by any time.
