ALLW8, Who cares what H wants in his profile. This is what he wants in the fog so it doesn't matter. Yes don't look and snoop, not yet at least, you really have to be in a place where this kind of stuff rolls off your back.
Remember a good portion of this journey is about you finding out who you are and becoming that image or person, not becoming who your H necessarily wants. Yes meeting emotional needs, but not losing who you are a becoming a fake. Have you read the book Surviving An Affair by Willard Harely? IF not go get this, I think it has a lot of information in it that might help you.
Continue GAL, keep going to the dance class or what ever you started doing, do not stop. ITs easy to go once but we all must continue GAL'ing.
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
