Trust me Sol, if STBX and I didn't have two amazing children to raise together she would never see me again! I tried to show my kids the right way to deal with a hurting R and now I am trying to show them the right way to deal with a broken one. I still have a family. It's a lot harder this way, but it's what's right. If you give up what's right because it's hard then what do you teach your kids? I'm no martyr, I'm just a Dad trying to be a good example in the way I choose to live.
