Hi W2G, You haven't posted in a few days. How are you doing? I hope D3 had a great Halloween.
I agree with Kalni. Maybe it is time that your H see what it will really be like if you 2 divorce. His awakening may only come at that point. From what I have read around here, the WAS often decides to return to the M when he/she realizes the full extent of living without the LBS/children. However, you have to be at that stage where you feel detached and ready to move on (although you don't have to actually file for D). You can't be doing it as a ploy to get your H back. In my sitch, I have reached that point and my H keeps telling me he wants us to work things out. The major problem for us is the physical distance and thus trying to rebuild trust because of that. Let us know how you are doing.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
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