Hi Lisa,

Thanks :). I have gotten really used to looking at these boards on my Blackberry, and posting in situations where I shouldn't, like at a bar etc.

Now I don't think we're going to the outlets anymore. They are about 90 minutes drive north, in Northern Ireland, and H has a 7 AM flight tomorrow morning. The last thing I'd want to do is have him feel rushed and pressured, since he's also trying to finish this assignment for school, so I said that maybe we should just go another time. Then I also suggested that instead we could just go to dinner or a movie or something if he wanted, and of course got the classic, "we'll see." Ugh. He wants things to be different between us, but then when I am here, seems to make very little effort. Well, I am just going to stay positive, try my best to sidestep any R talks, and go with his flow...Anything I suggest might be viewed as pressure. At this point I am not sure how anything I do could seem pressuring, but going to continue to err on the side of caution...

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!