My 29 year old wife going through MLC, this sucks

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Thanks SPM. I hear what you are saying loud and clear. I am going to wait and see what happens. I am going to let her have to tell me about how she went over her minutes and ask me for the money. Then I am just matter of factly tell her that it is not fair to our family that she is wasting much needed funds. If she wants to changer her plan then fine, but I am not paying for it anymore.

I just really don't want to turn that conversation into a confrontation about other man. It will be the same old story. He is just her friend, they don't talk more than is appropriate and that is it. All a load of crap from the fog of course. The good thing is that I never stopped acting as if last night even with this information on my mind.

The other okay news is that she stayed in again for the 4th night in a row. And she has no plans to go out this weekend. Which is a first in months. Last night she was very quiet and I could tell she was thinking. So I let her be and did my thing and we watched some TV again. She has asked me twice now if I am still going out tonight and I told her yes of course. I am going to the movies with some friends, the I am going to do another 180 and text her and let her know I am going out for some drinks after. She will not expect this and it very similiar to what she has been doing to me when she goes out. She says she will be home early and then will text me later and say she is meeting up with some other friends. Probably when she is with OM though. But I really have no idea so I don't even entertain the thought.

Anyways, she is still being quite nice and pleasant, not being shy about flaunter herself naked around me and has been checking in with me more that normal. So I am going to keep these baby steps in my mind and use them to stay strong and focused on the task at hand.

Talk to you all soon.