Welcome back. I'll give more of a response later, but am just wondering, you didn't say he was moving in with this girl did you? My perception from your post is only that it seems as though they are together?
I do agree with Ali that if you are at the point where you want to move on, it would be worth having a frank conversation...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!