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Mrs. H,
Document everything he says or does. It's very important and Deb gave you excellent advice about the documenting as well.

No, he doesn't get what divorce is all about. Most of them don't when they are in La La Land. It's all about them, for them and what they can get. There is no sharing when it comes to a MLCer. Yes, he looked like a mental patient in front of the parents and students. I feel for you because you are the ex of that man. The parents are most like thinking to themselves...it's a good thing she's not with him right now.

I'm glad you stood your ground with him about Halloween. Now, no more explaining about the roles of each of you when you have the children. He's been told time and time again. Just walk away w/the children and leave it at that. He loves to push your buttons and the way he's doing it is beating you down, just like a spoiled two year old to get what he wants. He's going to have to learn that when it's your time w/the children, he does not interefere and when it's his time, you do the same. (Which you've been doing.)

I'm very sorry he's acting like an utter butt about all of this, but it's going to be a very long time before he figures out what his rights are (if ever). Stick to the visitation schedule and do not slip on it in any way.

Please try to enjoy your weekend with the boys. They really do feel badly for you and your son 7, is feeling very bad about the way his father talks to you. You may need to pay a little bit more attention to him this weekend.