Can my 32 year old W have a midlife crisis?

[kelaaron]

I haven't posted to you before but I do agree with everyone. Say nothing. You have to work this through yourself and saying something will do only a few bad things. It will cause confrontation. Will make YOU look like the bad guy to her. Won't allow her to make a choice that will satisfy either of you.

I haven't talked to family much either, except my mother. She is very non committal to anything and she doesn't give a lot of advice except "I can't tell you what to do". It has helped a little cuz I was able to finally learn about what she went through when she decided to D my father but that is another story.

Use this place. The friends you will make here. Vent your feelings, frustration, and confusion here. People will help when they think you need it and they will give advice that you can consider. They will also make you laugh, cry, get angry, and realize that you are not alone.