Hey Ali

Thanks for posting. He didn't announce it on FB I can see it all on my SIL pages. It doesn't confirm relationship status or friendship status.

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Why dont you stop DBing and just ask to speak to him/see him and ask him how he is? Ask him if theres anything he wants to tell you? What do you have to lose at this point and maybe it would be cathartic and set you free?


I know that I would not get an answer \:\( I have learnt that I am the only one who can make that decision - he made his a year ago and he seems to be sticking to it at the moment... as hard as that is on me. I suppose what I am really thinking is how long I can wait for. If he has to 'see this out' living with the other girl (yes the same one) then how long can I hang around for.

M- May 2006
D - Aug 2010
Now travelling the world