Make sure you can show your CC that you have documented all your interactions with the troop covering each part of the CDC and his/her pre-tests etc. Thats all you can do. His failing then would be a lack of effort. If you can't show that then you too will be rightly held responsible. you know the drill!!!
Maybe not, ok not, but you definitely deserve dad of the year award!!! Thank goodness you were there to take the kids t-treating that would have been horrible if not!!!
I do think a lot of our WAS need long-term intensive counseling probably. Your W too. I agree, that's kind of sad that W's own family seems to feel that way about her. ((((((MC))))))
Hey Tom, sorry about last nite, that really sucks for the kids. glad you had a good time with the inlaws!
enjoy your weekend away! you deserve it! Hugs!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Guess you're gone for the weekend Tom...sounds like you had a good Halloween with the kids despite W's behavior, and it was nice to get validation from her own family, I'm sure. Sorry she bagged on the kids though.
Hope Cinci is fun for ya! Gotta get to soccer games meself...
Brief update. had a great weekend away. Found a great locally owned seafood/restaurant bar in Cincy. Stayed there most of the night Sat. Met some great people and was asked to be a regular. I told them that I lived about 1.5 hrs from there; but am in town on at least a monthly basis. So I think it might become my Cincy weekend hangout.
Mom took my S to his soccer games and they won both of them. S even scored 2 penalty goals. I don't think I've seen him score yet; missed it but I was happy for them. I met them this evening on my way home at the end of season pizza party. I guess the W stayed out all night Fri. night. Stayed in the bedroom during the day on Sat. afternoon. The W did take the S to a Halloween party on Sat. night; but went out afterwards and came back home in wee hours of the morning. Mom said that S was visibly upset when W didn't go to the afternoon soccer game and also was upset after she brought him home after party and went out.
I guess she went to work today. Not home yet; not sure if she will be. but that's OK with me.
I had several people at Guard comment that it was good to have me back; as I've been able to concentrate on getting work done for the first time in a while. I told them that I've been in a fog for the last 8 months and I'm coming out of it. One Cpt. said "nice to have you back."
It was good to be back. I've got lots of support out there.
Your post sounds so "normal"...if it wasn't for the sentences about your W you would think life in MC land was perfect!!! I think for myself that I know I had really detached was when I couldn't think of anything about HER to post about. Seems like you are almost there.
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Glad that you had a good drill weekend. Mine went pretty good. The people over here are also really supportive of all the things that have been going on with me during the last few months. It is nice to be more normal and you can concentrate on your job.
When you start to see the same cycles over and over you kind of quit caring about it. The only bad thing is what it does to your son. That is what ticked me off the most with W and D11. Sounds like your son had great soccer games. Congrats for him.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
Congratulations on S's soccer game. My S12's football team won their division today and are going to the playoffs! Yay! He spent the last two years on a team that scored ONE TOUCHDOWN in all that time. LOL.
