What comes to mind PH is that your could simply ask your h if he could bring the boys by on Christmas Day. You have some gifts for them or holiday baking to give to them.

Spending the whole day might be too much of an expectation, but to simply bring the boys by for a few hours might be more reasonable.

When it gets closer to that time then you can have a better feel. You could always have some baked goodies for your h too when/if he brings the boys by.

Just keep praying PH. Put it in Gods hands.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"